def _send_missing_json(self) -> None:
         with DbConn() as conn:
-            missing = [f.digest.b64 for f in VideoFile.get_all(conn)
+            missing = [f.digest.b64 for
+                       f in VideoFile.get_all_non_deleted(conn)
                        if f.missing]
         self._send_json(missing)
 
 
                     shared: Any
                     ) -> None:
     """Run sync_func on arg pairs + shared, and again with pairs switched."""
-    host_names = 'local', 'remote'
+    host_names = 'remote', 'local'
     sync_func(host_names, dbs, shared)
     sync_func(*(tuple(reversed(list(t))) for t in (host_names, dbs)), shared)